Comments on: Shouldddd i stay a virgin and save myself for marriage?

By: Akuma~

Akuma~ — Thu, 01 Jan 2009 14:23:59 +0000

Well from the way you put it, yes save it. =)
Cuz you said part of me wants to respect your body, if you think of it that way, definately at all cost wait. Because a lot of people when they are this young, will regret it.
I am 16 and no i am not a virgin, but i don't regret it. We broke up now but part of me still likes him, he changed. I still deeply love the person he was before, but its just life is unpredictable, he seems to be a total different person now. And probably when i do find a new lover then i'd regret it because first time hurts and i'd probably think, im sorry for not saving it for you, to be able to go through the pain together. =)
well people would look at you differently if they find out. haha. obviously right? If you're not ready for pregnancy then definately dont, because before we did it we laid it all out and talked about what would happen. If this guy loves you obviously he'd respect your decision and wait too.
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By: nikkynicole

nikkynicole — Thu, 01 Jan 2009 14:18:59 +0000

Congratulations first of all for being able to maintain your virginity! I think you should wait because you want it to be not only special but with someone you are sure cares about you the same way that you care about them. The reason is that you would not just be giving away your body but a piece of yourself, and that boy/man should be worthy of you and respect you. And personally at 16 I was not a very good judge of who really cared for me and who did not.
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By: hummergirl12345

hummergirl12345 — Thu, 01 Jan 2009 13:37:59 +0000

WAIT! People do look at u differently i lost it right before my 16th birthday and i have regretted it ever since it doesn't make u feel any different.. people call me a whore and a slut cause i lost it so early and its really hard lying to my mom
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By: Ally

Ally — Thu, 01 Jan 2009 12:50:59 +0000

Stay a virgin. I was in a relationship like that, and yes the temptation of it came up, but I feel like I should save myself, and you can't guarantee you won't get pregnant. You have mixed emotions, I felt that too. If he loves you and respects you, Then he'll understand. If he doesn't, then, maybe he isn't the right guy.
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By: Lexi

Lexi — Thu, 01 Jan 2009 12:06:59 +0000

I don't believe in saving it for marriage only because what if you get married and you find out there is no sexual chemistry between the two of you? I've met girls who waited and got married before having sex and guess what? The guy was terrible in bed and she had to live with that for a very long time and it caused her to cheat on him. Too much drama! Some people just aren't sexually compatable. As long as you are 100% safe (condoms AND birthcontrol together) I think having a healthy sex life before marriage is fine. You'll understand more about your body, what does (AND DOESN'T) turn you on and be a better lover because of that when you DO meet that special guy. AGAIN…..BE SAFE…..BIRTH CONTROL PLUS CONDOMS!!!
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personal experience

By: Chaingunner

Chaingunner — Thu, 01 Jan 2009 11:35:59 +0000

fuck him wait im waiting till i get married trust me if you do it now and wear your white dress on your wedding day you not only lying to your self your bullshiting your mother and father and god
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By: la la

la la — Thu, 01 Jan 2009 11:14:59 +0000

i think u should wait.
if u were to get married to someone else someday then it wouldnt be as special being that he wasnt ur first (does that even make sense?)
plus im a christian so yea….
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By: ILLAC

ILLAC — Thu, 01 Jan 2009 10:49:59 +0000

if you want to wait that is fine. however i am 17 and lost my virginity when i was 16, i loved him and am still with him and i do not regret anything. so if this is what you want, there is nothing wrong with that. wanting to have sex is fine too.
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By: Gillehy

Gillehy — Thu, 01 Jan 2009 10:03:59 +0000

this is a decision that you have to make and not be influenced by something off here. i have had sex and im 17 but that might notbe right for you. your going to have every religious person telling you to wait till marriage and lots of others telling you to just do it but its really your choice.
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ive just been reported so refrained from calling certain groups what i think of them. god why did you make it so people could report you for saying what i think

By: ♥Mrs. Condra♥ ((<3mybabyy))

♥Mrs. Condra♥ ((<3mybabyy)) — Thu, 01 Jan 2009 09:44:59 +0000

Wait.
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