Alright, so im sixteen, i've been with my boyfriend for almost nine months now. he doesn't push me towards sex or anything, but i know he obviously wants it, he's 17. part of me really wants to like respect my body and wait until marriage, and then the other part is like, what's the point? There's always a chance of getting pregnant even with protection, and im diffidently not ready for that, no matter what. should i wait? would people look at me differently?
Well from the way you put it, yes save it. =)
Cuz you said part of me wants to respect your body, if you think of it that way, definately at all cost wait. Because a lot of people when they are this young, will regret it.
I am 16 and no i am not a virgin, but i don't regret it. We broke up now but part of me still likes him, he changed. I still deeply love the person he was before, but its just life is unpredictable, he seems to be a total different person now. And probably when i do find a new lover then i'd regret it because first time hurts and i'd probably think, im sorry for not saving it for you, to be able to go through the pain together. =)
well people would look at you differently if they find out. haha. obviously right? If you're not ready for pregnancy then definately dont, because before we did it we laid it all out and talked about what would happen. If this guy loves you obviously he'd respect your decision and wait too.