Comments on: Did any of you save yourself for marriage only to be very disappointed when it finally happened?

By: wnt-a-bby

wnt-a-bby — Thu, 04 Dec 2008 23:04:59 +0000

I waited to have sex until I was married because I feel like sex is the physical expression of the most intimate connection you make with someone. For women – especially (and I’m not being sexist, there’s science to back it up) the hormones released during sex bond them to whomever they’re with. I figured – if I was going to have sex with random people and make that serious chemical connection with everyone I dated…well then I was asking for heartache and confusion and drama in general.

And while my husband and I needed some practice when we first started out – we definitely got it and do the deed to fireworks quite regularly.
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Interpersonal Communication and Human Relationships byKnapp and Vangelisti

By: micreativeimages

micreativeimages — Thu, 04 Dec 2008 22:26:59 +0000

I did not wait, but now that I am older I do appreciate sex much more….especially when your with someone you love. It makes it soooooo much better.

I don’t wish I would have waited until marriage, but i do wish I would have waited until I found my first love…which wasn’t until I was in my early 20s.
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By: taotemu

taotemu — Thu, 04 Dec 2008 22:16:59 +0000

I waited until after my 15th birthday and though the same thing. It wasn't until I get into my 20's I discovered how mind blowingly awesome it could be. Then she broke my heart. I haven't been the same since.
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