Should we say what is on our mind or guard our words more carefully because of where we are and who we are with? What advice is the counselor most likely to give on this subject?
Rules of Engagement is this…. Honesty is the best policy and the Counselor can not fix what they don't know!! Kind of like when you go to the Doctor…. they can't diagnose you unless you tell him/her your symptoms, right?!! Same thing goes and if you hold back, you are only preventing change in your relationship! Oh, and you might want to also include your "pet peeves"….. Great "emotional work" there! 