My wife tells me that she is not sure what she wants anymore. So I set up some marriage counseling. Im just not sure if it’s going to help. She left about three weeks ago and says she needs to figure things out. I hope that the counseling is going to work. I want to help her figure things out. She is my world and I don’t want to lose her. what are some other things that I can do to help her through this, as well as my self?
Whatever you do, don’t constantly ask her if she’s figured anything out yet. I took a “break” to figure things out and my partner was constantly asking me if I had figured anything out. That is sooo annoying! Just be supportive and loving. the counseling is a great start. As for helping yourself, just remember that you are taking the necessary steps to save your marriage and if anything should happen, i.e., her leaving, you did you best. It’s about her, not you, so keep your chin up! Kudos to you for starting counseling.