My wife and I are going through some troubles in our relationship. We don't really fight at all in our marriage, but a few little problems came at once and we couldn't handle it like normal couples. Now we talk about divorce a lot, but I don't want that to be an option. We have been married for 5 years, we have 2 beautiful kids and we are both only 24 years old. I know couples go through really tough times together, but since we are not really used to problems.
Wondering if someone tried marriage counseling. I heard it was a lot of money and I don't have any money, but I am willing to work 2 jobs to pay for it if it will make us stronger and better.
my husband and i have been together for 5 years and we've had our share of horrible arguments, and counseling saved our marriage. so im sure it will work wonders for your marriage, dont be so quick to spit the word divorce out, or your wife for that matter, its not that serious. unless your willing to seriously pack your crap and move out of there then those are just hurtful words. i think you should see a counselor and they can teach you how to fight fair. like giving each other to say they're side of the argument without interuppting the other person as he/she speaks. take a time out when your mad instead of blowing up on that person you should take a time out and just think before you speak. it worked wonders for us, sounds silly if you think about it, but sometimes many couples act childish! good luck to you.