How Do You Save A Marriage?
August 10th, 2009
I failed. Drove out both stepsons, leading to resentment from my wife. Daughter disrespects us both at 11, only going to get worse.
Is it best I cut my losses and move out?
It is only through recognising our shortcomings can we improve. Stick around and make a differnece to that 11 year old. Your wife will go from sole mate to flat mate and back again half a dozen times between now and when one of you falls off the perch. Try to remember what made you fall in love with her the first time around.
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How can i save my 27 year old marriage,when your spouse is a alcoholic.
Look online to see if there are any AlAnon meetings in your area. AlAnon is a support group for friends and family of alcoholics. There are even divisions for teens. Hope this helps.
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Or even free. We don't have alot of money but are in dire need of some marriage counseling.
yup. depends on the counselor.
Marriage counseling question. I love my husband and find fulfillment in every sense with him except sexually
May 7th, 2009
we’ve been together for ~6years. At first all was good. Then things turned ugly when he started cheating. We split many times, I went through deep depressions. He would beg to come back and we did, each time. He was the perfect man in every sense except I didnt trust him and would think of other women with him. This started affecting me sexually through time where I could not focus. About 1 year ago he made a drastic change in which he decided to be non-cheating, homebody husband. The problem is that now, my sexual evolution has gotten worse to the point where I dread having sex with him. I dont think about the other women anymore. I am just NOT excited by him anymore, though I find him physically attractive. I’ve tried a romantic getaway, and new ways but still hard for me to get into the moment. I cannot enjoy myself with him – get aroused.
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Is this reason enough to leave my marriage or am I being unrealistic?
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I think if he has really changed, then you need to find a way to heal what was damaged by his actions. I suggest for you to go to counseling on your own, without him present and see if you can’t work through the issues his actions caused. Until you fully forgive him and open yourself up to him again, you may not be able to be sexually satisfied by him. Sexual satisifaction requires you to be open and it is hard to be open with someone who has betrayed you as much as your husband has. Sex is an important part of a marriage relationship and it begins to degrade the relationship when the intimacy is gone. Not to mention it makes you vulnerable to seeking satisfaction else where. You don’t want to do the same thing he did to you, to him. I hope that helps a little. Hang in there girl, you have gotten this far, you can get through the rest of it 
What does everyone thing about Marriage Counseling?
May 6th, 2009
My husband and I have some BIG problems and I am at my wits end. I have already moved out and we are doing equal time with our 2 year old. I just wanted to ask what people though about marriage counseling. Is it worth the time and effort or should I just give up already??
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I don't know about what everyone else things……
but I know… that as long as both people are willing to try to repair the marriage….. that marriage counseling…. can do WONDERS.
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Marriage Counseling? How to ask your spouse?
May 3rd, 2009
My husband and I recently separated …he said he is not in love with me anymore and doesn’t want to be married at all. I am in love with him we have two children one is only 5 weeks old! I have asked about marriage counseling when the problems first started and he said no but I feel like this is really my last chance …What should I do?
Ask him again! But in the meantime also ask him what he feels is wrong in your marriage. The idea that “love” or “not being in love” is the criteria that keeps a marriage going, is absurd. Getting along with each other has to do with talking things out. You are two different people, coming from two different worlds with different ideas of what brings about happiness.
If you can ask him about what bothers him and, at the same time explain what you want to get out of the marriage, you will have gone a long way towards saving your marriage.
Yes, I did plenty of marriage counseling in my life. But counseling is worthless unless both partners are willing. Check out my source. download Waiting…
How much does marriage counseling generally cost?
May 2nd, 2009
My husbands insurance will cover 3 sessions. If we are paying out of pocket, generally how much would we be paying to see a marriage counselor. Thanks in advance.
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The place where we go is $100/hr but they also have a sliding scale depending on income. Search around, you should be able to find something reasonable.
How do I talk my husband into marriage counseling?
May 1st, 2009
Balls of Fury movie download The Odd Couple download He had an affair about 7 months ago and we are both trying so hard to overcome it and get past it. He is remorseful and i havent seen him try this hard since he tried to get me to marry him 10 years ago. I know he loves me and is sorry and is doing everything right to "fix it". But I still think counseling would be helpful. He thinks everything is ok, cuz i dont say anything, i bottle it up to keep things normal, but I really think I need further professional help, but I really want marriage counseling for us both. How do I delicately approach the subject without coming off as demanding it. How do i get him to see that I think it would really be helpful. I still have so many questions surrounding his affair and I am afraid to just ask them. I think a marriage counselor in the middle would be a better alternative, for I have read that in times of healing from an affair, certain things said can be more damaging than helpful and I want guidance to get through it.
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Oh and please save your negative comments on once a cheater…bla…bla…Thats not what i asked. So many people are willing to throw in the towel these days and when i read on here telling people to get rid of cheaters, I have to wonder if they ever went through it themselves. Its easier said than done. At least I am trying and if still dont work, at least I can say i tried.
1. convince him that is was his decision to seek counsel.
2. never make it seem like a chore to go to counselling.
download Twister dvd 3. don't criticize your husband in counselling. only talk about subject matter that is relevant to why you are there.
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4. take him to his favourite bar or restaurant after sessions.
5. stress positive results even if you don't think there are any, there will be.
Has marriage counseling worked for anyone?
July 23rd, 2008
My marriage is in the toilet and we've decided to either get help or split up. We still love each other and I desparately want things to work out.
It's the second marriage for both of us and it seems like we keep repeating the same mistakes that ruined our first marriages.
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Of course it works, it's work from both sides and needs your commitment. It's a pitty to lose someone you love over some problems. Pick your battle, you'll gain his attention and respect. Give each other space. Try to be happy, and do something new with him; movies, walk in the park on a Sunday, look your best and surprise him with a romantic dinner. My best friend's mother once told me: marriage is like merging 2 stones into being one stone, it takes years for the nature to do that. No marriage is perfect, it's a hard work and communications. Respect each other's individuality and opinions. Don't try to change each other, this won't happen, it'll make you both angry at each other & build more resistance between you. Accept each other the way you are and try to change the way you treat each other. Good Luck and I hope things will work out for you!
Does marriage counseling work when infidelity is involved and he is only staying for the kids?
May 31st, 2008
The marriage is 18 years. Both parties are guilty of infidelity. We have no respect or trust for each other. Our oldest child wants us to do marriage counseling. He told me he feels nothing for me. He is only trying because of the kids. I am willing to try to quit cheating. Nobody knows of my indiscretions. I thlnk he has feelings for his other woman.
He and I are guilty of infidelity. Our children are 15-10-3. Our oldest wants us to try marriage counseling. He has told me he doesnt love me. He still is taking care of the family financially. He is only here because he doesnt want to leave the kids. He doesnt know for sure of my infidelity. He suspects and we fight alot. We are both scared to leave. He has feelings for his other woman, I suspect. He keeps going back to her. What can I do to give either of us the courage to start over. We have been married 18 years and it is scary. I think in some weird way I still love him. I want to do the counseling. His family accepts his girlfriend over me. They invite her to family events. They dont want me around. I must admit I have went through 4 cell phones this month by throwing them at him. I beat him up the night I asked him if he loved me and he told me no. He also told me he has no feelings of passion toward me. We were seperated about 2 years ago and he moved back.
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marriage counseling does work if both parties willing to work at the problems and trust me it aint easy but worth it that is if you both really wont it